Aug 16, 2020

Laundry question. Was I rude? So a new neighbor moved in downstairs?

Rodolfo Merel: how do i start?

Brice Greczkowski: It isn't her personal laundry room. She shouldn't treat it as such. If the landlord won't do anything (even though she/he should have) then you'll have to take action. Leave a note on her door telling her politely what the problem is and ask her to fix it. Maybe have other people in the apartment sign it... If she still does nothing about her laundry then give her another note, a slightly less polite one. Tell her that you'll leave her laundry, wet or dry in a trash bag right outside the laundry room if she doesn't deal with it.I can't believe you cleaned and folded her laundry for her. She is being completely inconsiderate and should realize that living in an apartment is different than living alone....Show more

Faustino Mellerson: If I were in your shoes I would pour gasoline on her clothes and set them on fire. I don't know what you would do.

Vickie Clampett: Bag and trash it.

Melvina Bieri! : Well, I don't think you can change them but you can keep yourself from becoming like them. by showing a good example for those teenagers you have empathy for, yes they do get discouraged its a tough world out there, and now more then ever they need kindness and understanding, If the old folks don't give it , then I'm betting the young folks won't be there for them either. you get as good as you give.

Neville Dautremont: the girl is probably working her butt off in school and even maybe a job. she is overwhelmed. to solve the problem, offer to do her laundry for her each week for a fee. pick it up, wash and dry it and deliver it to her door.

Jeannetta Gaffigan: Pretty common in LA and Boston -- roll up your windows, turn on the AC and rock out instead. Then you won't be bothered

Von Houskeeper: I occasionally receive flyers of nearly naked women by mail, sent by Playboy. I don't know how they got my address and it's not the kind of stuff I'd want my ki! ds to come across. Any suggestion on how to stop playboy from ! sending me such mails? I have been unable to find a solution from their web site.

Shon Almquist: that's disgusting and unacceptable. why would she do that? there is obviously too many off you to fit in that place, you can barely put up with the tight space what in the world makes her think that she can leave her dirty laundry in the middle of the place. if i were you i would just get her stuff and throw it somewhere it doesnt bother anyone or take up any space. and if she doesnt get the message, then do it again.

Marcellus Yoshimori: They feel the need to let you know who STUPID you are...!

Jorge Detlefs: they are just teasing ... they have no life really. I just yell back to startle themoh yeah.. and one time i was crossing the cross walk infront of these teenagers in their car.. nad i was wearing a cat and a dog on my shirtand the boy in the passenger side rolled down the window and started to bark! and then the guy in the divers side started to meow. i ! started to run like heck like Cujo the rabid dog was behind me...

Hipolito Rightmire: I mean in my church it seems like the older people are so stuck up in their ways and they never give teenagers a chance to be acknowledge, thats why are alot of them (teenagers) are so discourged and think no cares about them. Im 35 and it pisses me off to see older people act in this manner.

Kandi Lough: I would leave a note, inviting her over, or talk to her politely and explain that it is not right to leave your laundry in the washer or dryer in a common area for so long. Leaving it there for a few minutes is acceptable, but it is a good idea to put things from the washer into the dryer promptly. I think it is OK that if it has been there several hours or a whole day, I think that is OK to take it out of the washer and put it up top do you can wash your clothes. That is what we did when I lived in the college dorms and shared a laundry room....Show more

Dulcie Edis! : No.

Bernie Cerra: Anyone who does that is just ignorant, and is! n't really worth a comment.

Marylee Lucks: Ask the landlord to put up a sign that tells not to leave unattended laundry in the laundry room.If she leaves it in there for days .. have you considered taking the laundry to the land lord ?

Esmeralda Pigram: Honestly some people have anger problems i once had a guy tell me to meet him off the freeway and motioned like he wanted to fight me and I'm a very small girl!!! people are crazy!

Raleigh Lufkin: I've seen this happen before (mostly in small rural churches). The older members don't want to relinquish any power/position/authority to anybody not in their age bracket. Attitudes like this is what ends up driving the youth out of the church and yet the older members don't see this. In my opinion a lot of these older people are afraid of change. They want things to stay the same because they equate change to their getting older. I've noticed in larger more urban churches there is less of this type thinking! . It's still there but I think the ones that are so stuck in the past either find another church that has a majority of older people or they learn to adapt.

Weldon Totaro: Uh...... not everything can be done online in the real world. Pick up the phone (landline is best but cell will do) and call. One question though..... your kids think it is OK to even touch the mail?Log the case/call #, date time and who you spoke to. The very next time you recieve something call and ask for someone higher than the first call center person. Then it will stop.

Horace Escue: The song is just to please the girl with whome some one has broke off. The reply must be personal matter and feelings which now stands for the ex. Thank you.

Misty Vagle: I live in an apartment complex and people will actually throw my clothes out of the washer or dryer if left in there for 10 minutes after they are done! No mercy. But Leaving clothes in a public laundry facility for more than a day i! s ridiculous. Apparently she doesn't care about it enough to move them.! I would move them for her and put them in a bag. It's not rude, she is the rude one.

Bruno Galasso: Kia, if there is one thing that is assured of in America, it's that there are plenty of different kinds of churches all around us.Visit other churches to see how the ministers/priests interact and the parisioners intereact. Eventually you'll find one you are comfortable in.

Nona Lentini: Everybody wants attention and that is the quickest way to get attention is to shout at someone on the street.The ones in the car notice you the people on the street notice you. But there is one small problem with that kind of attention.They think they are crazy people.

Lorelei Lilburn: I just find it unusual.

Felicitas Phildor: The little card or flyer you get should have a number on it to call. Call them and tell them you want off their mailing list. Oh yeah, and stop putting your real name and address on porn sites. Good luck.

Debora Soliani: One of your f! riends probably signed you up for them as a joke!!You'll have to search for a contact number to talk to someone if there is no unsubscribe area

Foster Koopmann: I would probably take them out of the washer or dryer, put them in a bag then carry them up and set them outside her door. I know it's kind of rude for her to forget about them but honesty, it's rude to assume that SHE is being rude. She might just be scatter brained like my own daughter who is also premed. These medical schools have you hopping almost 24/7 and you've got to be sharply focused on your studies because you can fail so easily. If they were in the washer, I'd put them in the dryer first. Honestly...whats the harm? Is doing a good deed THAT tough or inconvenient? I dunno...maybe it's me being a mom, but I honestly would help the girl out. Why are we always so quick to judge the negative about someone? Whatever happened to "benefit of the doubt"? What ever happened to chivalry and doing unto others ! as you would have them do unto you? But you obviously have more time th! an she does, so would it really kill you to just throw her things in a dryer or a bag and leave them at her door with a note reminding her to remember to finish her laundry because leaving it unattended in a public place might get them stolen or damaged? Think about it...what if someday you came up on her and she was a doctor about to do surgery on you? I'm sure you'd want her to show you more compassion than you're showing her right now.Show a little kindness. It always comes back. Just like negativity. But it won't kill you...and it'll make you feel good about yourself, even if she does turn out to be an inconsiderate slob. At least you could go to bed at night knowing you're the better person....Show more

Idell Syed: Are you a cyclist, pedestrian or fellow car driver.If it happens are you maybe looking or moving a certain way or do you just forge on ahead and look forward.Some people who really look and gawk at every car and driver, are usually people that are in! gangs or are suspicious do this.As a walkerr, I mind my own business, don't look at any one unless the car and driver is planning to run me over, then I'll look. Who knows your case?

Morris Cuomo: they're common, vulgar and not very intelligent. laugh at them

Ervin Laeger: Two matters come to brain. First off you will have to simplest be relocating their laundry into baskets or carts and NOT into dryers. You would possibly harm their apparel and so they would possibly sue you for damages. The resolution is functional. Gather all 3 tenants for a fast assembly or draft a letter to them. The subject could be to outline special laundry days/occasions and/or etiquette. Ask every institution what could optimally be the first-class time for them to commit to this challenge. It can both be some thing like: DAILY: 6am-12noon APT.a million, Noon-6pm APT.two, 6pm-Midnight APT.three OR WEEKLY: M&Th- APT.a million, Tu&F - APT.two, W&Sat - APT.three with Sunday being an open! day and you are taking your possibilities. When drawing near this subj! ect take the load for your shoulders by means of pronouncing that "I have come to become aware of that after I do my laundry it can be poor impacting your potential to do the equal so I concept it probably useful if we would outline a few occasions or, no less than instructions of etiquette or approaches." Be bendy and expectantly, considering you all get alongside, every body will likely be as accommodating and beneficiant....Show more

Fritz Sisomphou: I don't think this is a problem reserved only for churches. That's pretty much how the younger generations have always viewed the older generations. If you want to be really proactive, you could start a seminar or something in your church for the youth and the elderly to come together and share things they've learned and/or have in common. You could even do some sort of project in which an older person is paired with a younger person.

Vita Moodie: You know those subscription cards that are already "postage pai! d"?Just paste one of those to a brick and drop it in the mailbox. Every time they send you advertisements, do that. Pretty soon they'll get tired of paying the return postage, and they'll cut you off from their junk mail list.Or you could always call them and preach the Bible at them. That's what I'd do.

Boris Hadsall: Bring a trash bag with you (new one, not reused) and put the stuff in it while you do your thing. Do not take the stuff out of the bags if you finish before they come back, just leave it in there.They will get the message that someone has been there and it won't cost you much.

Rashad Marecki: I used to get it all the time when I rode a bicycle....now I find myself doing the same thing. That and honking the horn alot at people walking too.

Jannie Ariola: hah-you know what you should do? it would be a pain in the ****, but gather all her clothes and drop them in front of her door lol. --no though, in all seriousness, talk to her about it. Tel! l her how it's inconveniencing not only you, but the other people in th! at aprt as well. If she continues to do what she's doing, if your landlord's incompetent, i'm not sure what else i can suggest :(...Show more

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